For the record. Mother went into full time care back in June. We’ve been going through her stuff like she’s dead since. (Still need to sort the garden and put it up for sale). She got pushed into care because of neighbours complaints. Once the filth were involved, the state became interested.
My (S)mother (was)is a manipulative fucker who has treated me like a five year old my entire life. Emotional blackmail was/(is) a regular occurrence. But I know in her twisted way that she loves me so I’m buttfucked by a sense of duty.
The second you or anyone else is in their system it gets damn tricky to extricate yourself. But try anyway. I’m doing a gradual digital detox this solstice.
I heard about a person who is deliberately letting their (online, therefore not real) life be hacked so that they could sketch out how it is being done these days.
They said that when we shrug and decide resistance is futile is when the rot sets in.
When I see really badly behaved kids, I jokingly say, “I blame the parents”. However, from experience and from a Harley Street therapist, it is always the case.
Peace bro, and even if only for this day, put it behind you.
WIth the news every day, WWIII closer every minute and the three mouseketeers ramping it up, the racist demented murderer in the White House, we need a few more who are able to pull no punches. Just one caveat. The punches must not be ad hom.